The Rant Room:

[zaac]

why is it that women (girls) boohoo and pine and whine and bitch and moan that men are pigs or don't care, then when they find out it's not true via a guy that treats them like amillion bucks and never would dream of disrespecting them, let alone ever put their hands on a woman, you know... the one guy they dont think exists that does open doors and leaves little fun surprises to brighten her day just because....they treat the guy like shit or run over them tho the poor shit didnt deserve any of it, thereby creating the asshole women say they despise so much? Yet, they will get with a guy who screws around on them, treats them badly, or hits them, and the woman can't get enough of it...they just keep going back over and over and over and over and over and their reason is....but i love him.

to me, if you let a guy treat you that way, it's a really good indicator of what you think of yourself and i guess thats why i get frustrated, cuz if you dont think much of you you're not going to think much of anyone you're with. and its becoming a god damned epidemic. I'm so tired of talking to women who have been so fucked up and jaded cuz they made bad choices in men and the rest of us get to pay the price. thanks but no thanks

but i've been called nine kinds of asshole for saying that and, yes, I am alone but it's not for lack of trying. I've even noticed when I'm out. If you catch a pretty girl's eye, they usually look at you like your a pygmy warthog. so rather than sit there and go ga-ga like they expect you to, i just ignore and act like they don't exist. within seconds, they are hop-scotching and sashaying their way in front of you flipping hair that usually is over permed anyway. The worse you treat them, the more they come back. don't girls have any self respect? i can understand that they may have been done wrong at some point, big deal, so was i.

my first wife got pregnant while i was 750 miles away in military training. the second main girlfriend was violent, and the last one was a special kind of twisted. but i'm still me, and i know i made bad decisions for the same reason i'm saying this now...i didnt think much of myself. and if you're not careful, everything thing you touch will become a self fulfilling prophecy.

i guess my question is ladies...when are you going to get real?

[Mysty]

WOW ......... just wow... and are you not doing the same thing by lumping us women in with the idiots you have known?? I am shocked and disappointed. I had thought you were more open minded and non judgmental.

[MsJacquiiC]

True - I know some women (or have known anyway) who will want the bad guy because they like the drama and shit... I don't like the drama and shit - so I'd basically say like what MS MYSTY has said - don't lump us all together in a big ball of ugh --- But anyway - yeah - I know what you mean - and those "women" are generally the types I call "pussy face" --- But generally I've found them to be open and honest about their misogynistic cravings/ways unless their in the process of stabbing you in the back. It's a pent up depression of sorts I'd say - only depression is madness turned within on self - One could say it's a self-hatred of sorts... The crazy ass pussy faces you talkin about ZAAC are mad, hatin' azz bytches LOL.

Jacquii.

[butchiesmom]

Sorry to say I've met women like you describe and have been married to men like that. I'm married to the kindest man you ever met. He opens doors, including car doors for me, and treats me like gold. On the other hand, he's passive-aggressive and has trouble making snap decisions. Should an emergency arrive, I hope there's someone else who can make snap decisions because a life could be lost.

He's not the box of candy (thank God, lol) or dozen roses (ditto, asthma) but he's bent over, picked a flower and placed it behind my ear while on a walk. He likes funny cards and well...some things should not be written here with young kids posting also. Let's just say I'm not unhappy, lol.

Anyway, when I met him, I'd already decided all men have the potential to be an asshole and that goes ditto for women. I still feel the same way. Let me say though, I was married to three assholes (not at the same time, lol) and know one when I see one. I'm not saying my husband is an asshole, but he has his moments....

Life goes on. I agree with Mysty and Ms Jacquii. Don't lump us all together and we won't do the same to you (all men). This argument has gone on since the cave man days. The reason it's out there in the open now is women are no longer afraid to express what was represssed before or said only amongst ourselves.

Perhaps it's no longer a good ole boys world after all...

hugs,
Gail

[zaac]

it's not just my experience with certain women. i observe it every day. and i did qualify my statements by saying that i made bad choices. and after all, this is a rant, where i can say what happens to be on my mind at the time. i know not all women are like that, i'm not that crass and naive. i just havent found any of them.

and i have done the mental work and still doing it to figure out, if what you say is true, why am i attracted to a certain type of woman. i've looked at traits in myself and women that might cause me trouble. I've dated women from all walks of life, socio-economic strata, race color creed, etc..quiet ones loud ones crazy ones psycho ones and the common denominator is if you give them an inch they will take a mile. you always hear how they've been so mistreated or cant trust men yada yada yada, all the while taking advantage of you simply cuz they know you have a kind heart. I'm almost terrified to even open up to a woman in conversation, cuz somewhere down the line, you'll get burnt with it.

People have told me i'm too nice, so i tried being an asshole, but thats not me and its not right to treat women badly just because you have a hangup. I could never justify going out and sleeping with anything with a pulse with a veangeful tint or because I'm mad.

Ironically, Mysty is right. I am doing the same thing. Doesn't feel so good does it?

z

yes, it could be me...and in keeping with that possibility, i wrote gentle is the hand. cuz if i have a problem with picking women, i'd rather have God do it.

[butchiesmom]

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Originally Posted by zaac

Ironically, Mysty is right. I am doing the same thing. Doesn't feel so good does it?

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If you assumed I was talking about you, specifically, when I said about assholes, I apologize. My intent was not specific to you but to people in general. I must learn to be more specific, lol.

[zaac]

dont sweat the small stuff...i said assholes cuz my fingers wouldnt stop typing lol, i didnt take it wrong so no worries.

david

[MsJacquiiC]

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Originally Posted by butchiesmom

Let me say though, I was married to three assholes (not at the same time, lol) and know one when I see one. I'm not saying my husband is an asshole, but he has his moments....

Well - I should hope not - there was a very recent big to-do all about polygamy
But yes - I suppose we do all have our moments. I know I sure have mine...

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Originally Posted by zaac

If you catch a pretty girl's eye, they usually look at you like your a pygmy warthog. so rather than sit there and go ga-ga like they expect you to, i just ignore and act like they don't exist.

LOL @ pigmy warthog - but being serious for a moment ((gasp)) - You certainly are doing your part to enhance exactly what you're ranting about... Ironically - as you yourself put it... But I tell ya - I think we all do eventually meet the "MR. RIGHT" or "MS. RIGHT" or whatever... The interesting part is making sure that jealous assholes who are peeping you from afar don't take it upon themselves to intrude upon the "RIGHThood" - It's a task and a half I know... But then again - the "world" (generally speaking) has never ever been a perfect one (collectively speaking) --- So unfortunately you will have the pussy faces and the jealous assholes - but mostly the task now becomes to be the person that you truly are instead of exacerbating -- by playing little mental games -- an already incredible UGH! AND hope that you will find your MS. (or MR.) RIGHT sooner, rather than later.... (hope that makes sense)

Jacquii.

[zaac]

it makes perfect sense...will you be my mom?

z

[MsJacquiiC]

Uh......... No!
And if I were - would I have to admonish little Zaacy for being a smartass?
Anyway - you started the rant

Jacquii.