zaac

ya know...we should compare notes, cuz thats pretty much my attitude with women. the better you treat them, the more they act up. we could probably write a book on everything you didnt want to know about being in a one way relationship. lol

zaac

Åströmmer

I am sorry to hear you had it bad! There are no exuses. We all deserve to be respected for our efforts in relationships.

What kind of made me irritated in this thread was the generalisations concerning male sex. Some of you ladies were so unreasonable, and if a male would have used the words some of you used, he would have been crucified, cursed into the deepest hell.

So what gave some of you the right to use such wording about the whole of male sex. Please don't not answer me. As you would have guessed I am a male.

I know dozens and dozens of men, many of very good friends of mine, living in different kinds of situations. They all are devoted to their companios, loyal, sensitive, talkative and faithfull, wonderful sacrificing fathers. I just know, and I have wittnessed it too, how they would not let down their families, their lovers or friends. Need I go further.

It is sad what happened. It truly made me melancholy for a while. But in the end, he is just one person, not particularly a man or a woman, but a person who is not very good at understanding what a realtionship really means.

As someome in this thread said, you just had a precious lesson none of us want to have, but need to experience first hand. Move ahead, show adultlike selfrespect and enjoy the life. After all life is the best time we will ever have ;-).

Åströmmer