Well, here I am in the Rant Room. I do not get angry very often but when I do, I find some comfort in writing it out, turning it into something creative and analyzing the crap out of it. So Thank-you MsJ for giving me an outlet!
I Married an IDIOT!
He's not a total idiot,
just when it comes to his daughter.
She's wrapped him round her finger,
leads him like a lamb to slaughter.
"No more", he says when we're alone
"She needs to learn independence".
But when she calls, he sends a cheque,
on her words, dancing attendance.
She's a professional singer,
on her own, twenty-five years old.
Asked to sing at her dad's party,
she would not, she turned us down cold.
She only comes to get a cheque,
she only calls when she's in need.
Never does she send a letter,
she's a loving daughter indeed.
I feel my frugal cut-backs and
sacrifices are made in vain.
Why bother saving pennies,
when he's giving dollars again?
It's really not the cash at all,
it's this feeling of being scammed.
She takes and takes, giving nothing.
It feels the same as being spammed!
I understand wanting to give,
to help our children all we can.
I can't agree to being used,
as she does my idiot man.
Now that I have shared this - I feel much better! I don't know why - nothing has changed and I have no solution and sure as death and taxes, it will happen again. So- see you here next time!
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Not being quite mean? DARN! I meant it to be MEAN! This IS the Rant Room! LOL! Just kidding about that, Erik!
I do think he is being an idiot, though. I don't believe that he is doing her any good by handing her everything on a silver platter, so to speak. She'll never have to learn to manage her finances if it is just given to her whenever she asks and she has been asking way too often. I think he should LOAN it to her, when it is a real need - and make sure it is paid back before loaning her any more. By not doing this, he has turned her into a mooch and she doesn't just mooch off of us - she does it to her uncles, aunts and grandmother as well. They have already told her that they are not giving her anything more. He thinks it is a child's right to take advantage of a parent, and I cannot convince him any differently. Like I said - He's an idiot!
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yep idiot, well also he must be very caring, I don't like the things my parents give me, which i'm a spolied baby, but I'd never get anything over on them like she is i'm not that type, I think your opinions on this matter are correct,
at least from just your side is very compelling
TY Erik! And you will be happy to know that we have resolved the issue! He can give her whatever he wants as a gift on a special occasion (birthday, christmas, valentines etc.) but if she needs it and asks for it, it will be a loan. I FINALLY got through to him! YAYYYY!
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Congrats Altree....... I know how bad it feels when kids take advantage of their parents.. I never did.... I am a sucker for being taken advantage of. But meh ..... one day I will stand up and say NO MORE. One day.
brilliant penning Tree abd sometimes you have to say no to your children or they well keep doing it over and over, times she stands or sinks on her own two feet if she sinks then you can try to help her but she'll have to do it sooner or later and sooner is a lot better then later that why maybe she'll learn from her mistakes
hugs hugs hugs kisses
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ps heres a really big bear hug